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  • "The Joy of Growth Processes" by  Bob

  • How Therapy Gave Me Optimism About My Future   Don D. from Texas

  • My Story out of Homosexuality and into Heterosexuality  Rich

  • Getting Free  David

  • My Story of Change  Ted

  • The Rainbow Connection.  Kaelly Langston

  • The Way OUT  Larry

  • Alive  Terron

  • An Interview with Change  Bob

  • Listen to Ex-Gays Too  Anonymous

  • Client Describes Change Process  Carey

  • An Ex-Gay Man Describes the Change Process Gordon

  • Touching the Feminine Soul   Diane

  • I Remember How It Was to Be Gay   Anonymous

  • "Can Gay Men Go Straight?" Ed

  • Gaydar  Todd

  • My Positive Experience with Reparative Therapy  C.S.

  • They are only your "friends" so long as they can get what they want from you.  Sam

  • Teshuva means "return" - to our essential self, to who we really are.  Anonymous

  • But what really disillusioned me about gay people was the shallowness and the obsession about youth.  Nathan

  • I’m no longer queer, GET USED TO IT!   Jake

  • Any way I could receive love, with girls or boys, I would take it.    Gary

  • I was afraid that if I didn’t do what he wanted, he wouldn’t like me anymore.   Tom

  • Since my early childhood, I had three dreams  Richard

  • "...abusive father who preferred to ignore me and use rage and escapism as control tactics..."   Glen

  • I am incredibly grateful for a counselor who did not insist that the only path to healing was to be a lesbian...    J.H.

  • Homosexual sex is an act of taking - not an act of giving.  Roger

  • "I need help, I want help, and I need to become myself again..."   Neil

  • "why are you so passionately infuriated at the thought of a man changing his orientation?"  Anonymous

  • "Our son is smart; he will figure things out..."   Jose

  • I am writing this well into adult life and as a father of several children.   Anonymous

  • I saw that it was within my power and free will to leave behind this adolescent emotional state.   Ryan

  • Getting a tattoo and a piercing did not feel shocking enough, so I chose lesbianism as the ultimate shocker.  R.E.R.

  • I would seek out a man to please so I could feel that I WAS A SOMEBODY.  Nathan

  • A Long Hard Road  Daniel Meir Horowitz

  • You struggle desperately between wanting to satisfy your "natural" desires, and your emunah.   R.L.

  • I remember you looking at me in the rear-view mirror and very coldly and flatly saying "quit crying you little pussy."   Stephen

  • “How could you have lived with such a big secret for such a long time?"   Rachel

  • I was repelled by ... whole idea of being sexually tender with another man.   Anonymous

  • "In falling in love with another woman, [Leeron] is really seeking to connect with herself."-  Hope





  • I found myself searching for masculine connectedness and identification...   Andre

  • Feeling Different plus Sexual Abuse Lead to My SSA  Aaron ​

  • My version of love was totally narcissistic Casey

  • Why Gays Need to Believe They Were Born Gay: A Neurotic Drive for Acceptance.  Don

  • Why Many Homosexuals Hate Ex-Gays: Thoughts from A JONAH Member Michael Shaw

  • My Story of Change.   David in NY

  • Life Story of A Hungarian Overcomer  Uri

  • Getting Health Touch at a Journey Into Manhood Weekend David

  • Happy 42nd Birthday to Me: Un-Stonewalling My Dad  Paul

  • Has Anyone Really Changed from SSA to OSA? Yes. Me.  Bart

  • How My Life Has Changed Since Last Summer.  Rick

  • Letter to Dennis Prager (Radio Show Host) from a JONAH Man.  Israel

  • Letter to Doctor Jack Drescher.  Steven

  • Letter to My Father.  Joshua

  • I'm So Confused: Can I Really Change?.  Jacob

  • My Fight for Authenticity As A Man  Jacob

  • My Healing Journey Into Manhood   Henry

  • My Pride in Becoming a Bridegroom Anonymous

  • My Secret Life  Avrohom

  • One JONAH Struggler's Thoughts on the Gay Pride Events in Jerusalem.   Akiva

  • Reflection After Attending a Journey Into Manhood Weekend.  Jack

  • So You Want To CHANGE?   Anonymous

  • Telling My Fiancee About My SSA And Her Reaction.  Zev

  • My Changing Sexual Orientation. Yaakov

  • My Story.  Louis

  • Reparative Therapy helped save my life.  Joe

  • These Revelations and Experiences Have Been So Healing.  Steve

  • I was looking for love in all the wrong places. Chuck

  • I needed to feel like one of the boys.  Jack Yosef

  • I Finally Came Face to Face With the Fears that Drove My Homosexual Behavior.  "M"

  • Interview With Jerry Armelli Jerry

  • Interview With A Former Gay Activist: Two Year Follow-up.  Michael Glatze

  • I was repelled by ... whole idea of being sexually tender with another man.   Anonymous

  • Happy Ending to My Daughter's Situational Lesbianism-  Hope

  • Coming Out to Heal - Eric Rustman

  • God's Amazing Grace   Andre

  • Feeling Different plus Sexual Abuse Lead to My SSA  Aaron 

  • The Speech   Sean Patrick

  • Interview With Andrew Comiskey.  Andrew Comiskey


  • Healing the Savage Injuries That Lead Me into the Gay Porn World.   Joseph Sciambra

  • On the Same Team with My Brothers  D.P. in Israel

  • Becoming the Real Me Jedekiah "Jeddy" Stailey

  • Touching the Core of My SSA David from Pennsylvania

  • Where Would I Be Without Courage and JONAH? - David DeJiacomo

  • Holiday Magazine: My Adolescent SSA Fantasy- D.P., from Israel

  • My Experience of Therapy- Simon

  • Reflections of a Changed and Grateful Traveler- Samuel

  • Why Does the World Not Want to Face the Pain of Child Abuse and SSA- John Stephen W. of London, U.K.

  • Gay Conversion: I Slept With Over 200 Men, Now I'm a Happily Married Heterosexual Dad- James Parker

  • Overcoming Sexual Brokenness and Healing My Shame-
          Dee Barnes

  • My Roller Coaster Ride to Freedom from Unwanted SSA - 
          A Guy from Brooklyn

  • Just One of the Guys- J

  • A Low Attack on Same-Sex Therapy- Jeff Bennion

  • A Healing Journey out of Porn Addiction and Same-Sex Attraction- D.M from Tennessee

  • Knowing How the Fairy Tale Ends- Don 

  • This Is Who I Am: Masculine- Chris Stump

  • What Happened to the Idea of Brotherly Love?- Roger Mann

  • Why SSA Became A Blessing In Disguise- S

  • New Beginnings and Finding My Voice- CSR in Israel

  • Voices- R.W.

  • Releasing Shame, Loving Myself, and Seeing Hope- Charles from France

  • Dear Brother- R.W.

  • Goodbye My Wicked Beloved- R.W.

  • Telling My Fiancee About My SSA- Mohamed J

  • Want To Overcome SSA? - Ezri

  • I Was the Other Man: An Insiders Look On Why Gay Marriage Will Never Work- Joseph Sciambra
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    • Phelim McIntyre
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